Sunday, August 5, 2018

Hot Vanilla Flirtations

I'd love to hear if single males find this to be as erotic as I did.

If you’ve read our blog before, you know that Leila is an absolute goddess of flirtation. We’ve had some very interesting experiences as a result–often in vanilla settings. On Saturday night, we were at our favorite neighborhood bar when just such an opportunity occurred. Leila was sitting on a barstool to my right, which happened to be next to a spot where the bartenders served up their drinks, so there was a constant stream of patrons. She wore a light silky blue top that flowed over her voluptuous curves (braless), with skinny spaghetti straps exposing her sexy shoulders and criss-crossing over her exposed back. Sparkly earrings dangling on her sexy neck, wet & shiny red lip-gloss making her magnetic smile even more alluring.

We enjoyed the cover band and had some fun talking with a local guy who left early, but soon after she commented on the bartender preparing 5 vodka tonics (one of her favorites). Just then, a handsome young man came up to pay for them, standing so close to her right side they had to be touching. To approach the bar he had to slide between the barstools, so he was slightly facing her; stunned I am sure by the beauty he had just encountered. Since Leila was seated on her barstool, he hovered somewhat above her as he paid for the round. If you can imagine, his head was above hers, sort of looking down over her shoulder and leaning in toward the bar as he paid the tab.

From that position, he could have just picked up his drinks, turned around, and left. But as he prepared to carry several of the glasses back to his crew, Leila leaned back and to the right, exposing her sexy neck as she looked up at him. “Don’t get me wet,” she said.

My jaw nearly hit the bar. He stopped dead in his tracks, putting his glasses back down. He touched her bare arm, saying, “Oh, I promise. Offering a glass to her - would you like a taste, he said?” At this point, her head was tilted back and he was leaning down, gazing into her eyes as he spoke almost directly into her mouth, so close that it almost appeared they would kiss.

Phew!!! The band had just taken a break, and I desperately needed the men’s room, so I excused myself, hoping they would continue this exchange of flirtatious double entendres. Alas, when I returned, he was nowhere to be found. Just another vanilla male not inclined to go any further with a woman who was clearly not there alone.

Too bad for him. But it sure did get both of us hot!!!
Single males – what do you think? Could she/we made it any clearer that it was safe to continue the flirtation? Perhaps he was committed to his friends, so wouldn’t have engaged any further in any case, but it would have been fun!


  1. well although not a single male, but a married man to a very hot wife, no that was pretty damn direct. I think I would have taken the meaning but then again I dont think your wife would have flirted with me like that...but if I were in the bar watching people as I do I am sure that I would have spotted it and Im sure my wife would have also.....I bet he did get he wet though!

  2. Lmao...his great loss. Silly, silly man.

  3. Well if I was in that situation, as a single guy, then I would likely be so surprised at her words and stirred up by your wife's body that I would have been to dumbfounded to respond. Also I would worry that she had used an unfortunate choice of words and was not referring to her pussy getting wet and that if I had flirted with her you would both have been angry. Lastly I would worry that your wife was not a hot wife but rather was the sort of woman who likes to make her husband angry so that she would have two men 'fighting about her.'
    Indeed years ago, a woman was flirting with me outrageously and her husband came in to the bar looking very aggressive and daggers at me, I bailed, but not as fast as I should have,-I was somewhat drunk, luckily I did not get hurt or even verbally abused, but looking back it was not funny, and friends told me that she was always doing that.
    Your wife could have said I'm lucky my husband is not the jealous type, or he lets me be a free spirit.

    Certainly I think that for a lot of men the sort of scenario that you were creating is so unusual that we miss the chance of a bit of fun with a nice full breasted milf when the opportunity arises.

    I would like to wish you and your flirty wife all the best, I hope that you do meet some horny men who deal with your wife properly and let you enjoy all those delicious mixed up feelings.

  4. Thanks very much for sharing your experience Mr. Anonymous. There are subtleties to each situation, so it's helpful to hear single-male perspectives. One of our hopes for this blog is to inform guys that there are many opportunities to connect with lifestyle couples that they may otherwise miss. A drunken situation often leads to people behaving badly, so it's best to avoid. Otherwise, act politely and follow the couple's lead. BTW, we had another encounter with a single male at this same bar just a few weeks ago. Wow, did that ever turn out differently! One smart move on his part... when it was obvious that Leila was flirting with him, he asked if I was OK with it. More on that night (& morning πŸ˜ˆπŸ’‹πŸ’„in a future post. πŸ˜‰

  5. "Is one of those for me? What would my husband think?" , then adds, "I suppose you could ask him..."

    1. Hi Dean. Great to see one of my favorite HotWife erotica authors here. Thanks for your comment.

  6. well even from a married man, if my wife did this I would be so hot and horny I would need the mens room quickly too. I love it when wives flirt like this and it goes over the heads of those poor single guys. I wonder if I would have picked up on it myself.


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