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If you've read our very first post, you know that our biggest motivation for this blog is to create a "HotWife Guide.. for Single Males". In our experience, single males who know how to engage with a Hot Wife AND her husband are exceedingly rare. We hoped to provide some tips, along with sharing our erotic experiences, in hopes of helping more men (and couples) navigate their way into this 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-48768900031850846892015-05-25T14:31:00.003-07:002016-02-10T08:46:06.780-08:00So Two Straight Guys Walk Into a Gay Bar....
It's been about one year since our last blog post on HotWife4MFM, but rest assured we're still out here enjoying sexy adventures as much our hectic schedules allow. There just hasn't been time to write about them.
Nevertheless, it's the Memorial Day weekend, so I have a little spare time and I just have to share a hot story about last night. On Saturday, Leila and I headed up to San 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-28796974203662545662014-05-17T19:24:00.000-07:002016-02-23T18:45:56.771-08:00Vanilla CrushI could sense their attraction when we first met. We were having Nick build a piece of custom furniture, and Leila was excited to discuss our design ideas. From the samples of his work we had seen, we knew he was a talented craftsman. In person, his laid back manner and soft-spoken nature made him very easy to talk to.
Leila always loves talking to interesting people, regardless of any sexual 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-1413542297057730482013-10-17T23:42:00.002-07:002014-03-08T18:15:59.372-08:00Intro to HotWife Play, and being Sexually Social.It's been a while, actually 6 months since our last post, but yes.. we're still here! That 6 months happens to coincide with Mr2Hot taking a new job, which has just about wiped out his blog time. Good to be back, if only briefly.
It was a Saturday night very much like the one I wrote about last year, in "Hot Wives, MFM, and the uninitiated Single Male".
That was a night where we had a 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-66137913496612160652013-04-05T21:18:00.000-07:002013-04-05T21:18:01.995-07:00Jake's storyIn "Stimulate her mind... and the rest will follow.", we shared the story of Jake, a SM that we met online who exemplifies so many of the right ways to engage with a HotWife4MFM that I may have overdone it with the links to tips in previous posts. After we posted that story, Jake asked if we might be interested in posting his point of view on our meeting, connecting, and that very 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-89284060116332906072013-03-18T22:29:00.002-07:002013-04-06T07:39:44.482-07:00Stimulate her mind... and the rest will follow.Shortly after our last blog post, we received an email from a reader on Kasidie, a gentleman who we did not know before. He is from the East coast, but said that he had enjoyed our blog and was visiting our part of the world in Silicon Valley on business, and would love to learn more about us. We are usually reluctant to engage with out-of-town SMs, because such visits are not conducive to 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-9510785370239810122013-03-10T20:31:00.001-07:002013-03-10T20:31:53.604-07:00How to be a SM FWB
SM FWB = a Single-Male Friend With Benefits
The truth is, I really don't care very much for the "friend with benefits" designation. It seems to contradict what draws us to explore the "lifestyle" in the first place, which is to be able to express our sexual identities more freely as an integrated part of the whole persons we are.. not something separate. It is that treatment of2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-85266313815015076842012-09-26T01:30:00.001-07:002012-09-27T11:44:29.818-07:00An erotic virtual threesomeLeila had been working a lot of long hours for months, so a trip to Hawaii for some well-deserved R&R would be just the thing for her. Unfortunately, I couldn't go with her this time, since I was too tied up with work myself to get away. Leila recruited a girlfriend to join her, but she could only make it for the latter half of the trip. For the first five days, Leila would be a HotWife in 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-41058276711879862652012-08-24T11:29:00.002-07:002013-10-06T18:13:33.329-07:00Leila and Paul... our discussion of her 1st HotWife DateOur discussion immediately after Leila's 1st Hot Wife Date...
Leila had been nervous earlier in the evening, while waiting for Paul to arrive, even saying at one point "I don't like this game". That all changed quickly once she saw him. She told me they spent the next hour chatting, as she sipped her vodka tonic and Paul... apparently wanting to keep his wits about him... just 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-52287870527617767342012-08-21T22:42:00.008-07:002014-10-25T00:58:43.850-07:00Leila's 1st Hot Wife dateThe sexual tension began building to a fever pitch, after Paul learned that he and Leila would finally be back in the same city where they had met nine months earlier. The Prelude to a HotWife Date led to months of Sexting with my HotWife, and Paul was growing anxious... and even hornier for Leila.
Ten days before they were to head out of town on their business trips, he texted her. 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-37725453331074093932012-08-16T20:47:00.004-07:002012-08-18T20:44:40.554-07:00Sexting with my HotWife...continuing from Prelude to a HotWife Date
Paul is a not-so-long-ago divorced 40-something guy from the Midwest, who spends half of his days traveling far from home for his Sales Director job. While he no doubt would prefer the companionship of an attractive woman, most nights on the road end up with him at a bar surrounded by a bunch of guys just like himself.
So, 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-19100539753483505822012-08-11T12:02:00.000-07:002012-09-26T20:13:39.573-07:00Prelude to a HotWife DateIt was nearly ten months ago, last October, when Leila first met Paul while on a business trip 1,000 miles from home. She usually does not go out to dinner alone on such trips, but on that particular evening none of her colleagues were available to join her. Rather than grab some fast food or eat alone in her room, Leila decided to check out a restaurant that she had heard good things about.
The2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-86799990774270108492012-08-09T20:10:00.000-07:002012-08-09T20:46:06.463-07:00Hot Wife in the Office
There is something very arousing about seeing my Hot Wife dress up for a day at work. It begins when I watch her fresh from the shower, as she slips into one of her sexy thongs. Seeing her slide the little triangle of material up to her curvaceous derriere, until it caresses that area of delight between her legs...is a truly a wondrous sight to behold!
Sometimes2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-56081585820899953422012-07-30T10:45:00.000-07:002012-07-30T10:56:06.224-07:00New blog discovery, and update to HotWife4MFM layoutJust a quickie...
We listed a new blog that we discovered in Our Blog List in the right sidebar, "The Sex Experiment". We haven't read but a few of the posts there, which the author "Mr. X" has also turned into a book, but it looks very hot! We especially enjoyed #23: The Bar Game Experiment, which reminds us of our previous post here - Hot Wives, MFM, and the uninitiated Single Male.
We saw a 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-73075334479539463802012-07-26T22:19:00.001-07:002012-07-27T07:19:17.382-07:00Hot Wives, MFM, and the uninitiated Single MaleIt was a Saturday night, and Leila and I were sooooo ready to go out and have a sexy good time, after a very stressful week! We didn't have anything in particular planned, but for the possibility of meeting a Single Male who had contacted us online. He happened to live close to one of our favorite bars. We exchanged text messages into the night, but he ended up at a different bar with 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-2923506663094987722012-07-07T22:58:00.002-07:002012-07-07T23:02:39.160-07:00Hot Wife for MFM: Our Top 10 list of tips (so far).We've been asked to summarize our tips for single males, and now that we are up to 10, we think it is a great time to review. The last-in first-out blog format is not the easiest to navigate, so links to the article in which each tip appeared are provided in our summary list.
1) Our 1st Tip was: It's Not About You! In a Shared Wife MFM experience, the Single Male (SM) is a guest 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-81138023054346284042012-07-01T21:26:00.001-07:002012-07-01T21:35:52.552-07:00She was a Hot Girlfriend first... in a white spandex T-shirt!In my earlier post on "HotWife discovery. She was a hot girlfriend first", I wrote of what I think is the #1 motivation for couples to explore HotWife play: Whatever form your HotWife play may take, it is a great way to keep (or reignite) that sexual energy from the first stages of attraction between a man and a woman. That energy is often referred to as NRE, or New Relationship 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-68169831303236825012012-06-23T20:17:00.003-07:002012-06-23T20:22:38.751-07:00How do Single Males connect with Hot Wife couples?Recently, we posted this question to a couple of the MFM Forums on Kasidie -
Interested to hear from the Single Males. Have you been successful initiating contact with a Hot Wife, or has the couple contacted you? What approach do you use to meet Hot Wives?We received a range of replies, and were pleased to see that some of the experienced SMs echoed what we said in our Tip #6: If you 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-24695965014721421742012-06-03T23:18:00.008-07:002012-06-04T11:26:13.022-07:00New Connection EnergyIn our last post (Jealousy and Arousal, two sides of the same coin?), we described the concept of New Relationship Energy (NRE). Today, Leila and I were discussing how that description does not exactly capture many of the circumstances where palpable energy from a new attraction occurs, even if it is not overtly sexual.
We were enjoying a lovely Sunday afternoon of wine tasting,2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-46082789314431670602012-05-30T18:55:00.002-07:002012-05-30T21:33:07.816-07:00Jealousy and Arousal, two sides of the same coin?If you have read the earlier posts on our blog (and if you haven't.. you MUST read Leila's My heart beat faster..), you have already seen examples of what an incredibly sexual woman my Hot Wife is. When we met, experiencing her sexual energy was like nothing I had ever felt before. As I said in HotWife discovery. She was a hot girlfriend first, keeping that sexual energy going is a challenge for 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-35720952093065142252012-05-27T21:06:00.003-07:002012-05-27T21:11:11.485-07:00My heart beat faster...Hi there!
This is Leila. In "Butter hasn't been this erotic since Tango in Paris", Mr2Hot gave his account of the hot encounter we had on our second date. I thought you'd enjoy hearing more from my point of view.
When we met, I knew we had something special because I couldn't wait to see him and when I did, my heart beat faster. I felt sexual and beautiful and so wanted 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-67351758701514701022012-05-14T21:55:00.002-07:002012-05-14T21:59:02.897-07:00Tip #4 - Be honest with yourself first!I am a very positive guy, and I really try to avoid being cynical, but sometimes it is difficult not to be when the empirical evidence stacks up in the negative. I mentioned in my first post that Leila and I have found it surprisingly difficult to find a good man for potential MFM play. This past weekend, we experienced another incident that further proves the point.
From 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-29992093960587344292012-05-11T20:59:00.007-07:002012-05-11T21:15:12.789-07:00Question for other couples - are all HotWives such teases?In my last post, I wrote about how Leila's description of her sheer, black thong led to our first episode of heated passion on the roof a a parking garage. When we met, we lived and worked some distance apart, so chatting online was how we could most easily explore our passion for each other.
Looking back at those chats now, I have to laugh a little. Leila loves to be a tease! Especially when 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7923913663545238113.post-65849980017971606092012-05-10T20:43:00.003-07:002012-05-10T21:50:03.318-07:00Butter hasn't been this erotic since Tango in Paris(If you don't catch the reference, Tango in Paris was a scandalously erotic movie back in the 1970s, with an unforgettable scene that involved the use of butter ).
Leila looked at my previous post (HotWife discovery. She was a hot girlfriend first), and said "you left them hanging"!
She's absolutely right! She recalled what that online teasing led up to, and I 2Hot Lovershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04570972584294328548noreply@blogger.com2